My ten beliefs

1.I believe that short guys are mischievous.
I base this belief on my experience. It starts from my elementary school, for some reason they are always trying to proof that they are “taller” then they really are. From the perspectives of my mature life, with a few exception (“ exception proofs the rule”) I am still confident in this belief, because the grown short men are usually reactivate the complexes, which they were logged by pushing, laughing at, by taller members of the elementary and high school groups, and being unaccepted by girls.
The exceptions I was thinking about are for example Napoleon, maybe Einstein, and… maybe some men I don’t know…

2.I believe that people are selfish and I’m selfish too.
The difference between now and before is that before I tolerated my selfishness with reproach myself. Now- I know that without of my selfishness I wouldn’t be able to own anything, and also I wouldn’t be able to give anything.
How long can we live on credit?

3.I believed that people are greedy and I charged them, and for the same reason I also charged myself. When I was afraid to give away something, which I believed I would need in the future.
After reflection I realized why some of people are greedy.
Being greedy is just being afraid, and I respect that.

4.I believed that some people do not control their life.
I met many people that remind me blade of the grass on the river, which doesn’t travel through the middle of the river, but get stocks on the banks, circle around the eddies. I continue believe in that, because I often meet people, who blame for all their personal failures destiny and world around them.

5. Most men think they are smarter than women.
I’m really started to think that way, some time after I got married.
In the beginning of my marriage I believe that my husband knew answer for all questions (maybe because he talks a lot).
He usually tried to dominate all our decisions, even with knowledge that my suggestions were more practical and work, which was usually shortly proved by the life. I still carry this belief, because is very difficult to loose it.
In school, one of my classmates with obstinacy of the maniac is trying to proof that he knows more about Windows XP, and then he failed the test with the result of 42%, and I passed with 91%.

6. When I was a child I believed that everyone who let me felt that is smarter than me, was smarter. When I got older, I found the word for that kind of behavior. I change my view and when I meet people, and just in the first few minutes of conversation they are trying to make me feel “smaller” than they are.
I think about them – ignorant.

7. I used to believe that generally, people who don’t pay attention to their clothes are worth less than those who wear elegant or fashion clothes.
Today my belief is totally opposite; I found out that usually somebody who cares too much about clothes is “careless dressed” inside. My opinion is built on many occasion when I met people and they look very interesting “over the table”, but with the closer look, I found out that they are very “poor” inside. On the other hand, I met people who don’t care if they have fashion shirt, but they have a lot to offer.

8. I believed that if somebody is nice to me, he means it.
During my life I discover that somebody who is unnatural nice to me, is trying to get something from me. For example, ones I met a girl, she acts very nicely, she was doing many favorites, which I never asked for and needed. Shortly after that she proposed me to have sex with her.
In this point of my life when I meet some SWEET people, the red light starts blinking….

9.I always believed that members of the satanic groups are bad, stupid, and unethical. I based my opinion on other people’s thoughts. Some time ago I met few guys, with the satanic stars tattoo and I have learned that without of “clothes” those guys are much more ethical than average Catholics I know.

10.I always believe that I’m ugly, but ones, when I went to a “Monkey Bar” one tall guy told me that in this place I’m looking like “shiny star”. He also said that in the red light pimples on my face are almost invisible, and if I buy him another beer he would dance with me.
From that day I totally change opinion about my appearance, I know: I’m beautiful :-)