Fundaments of our decisions

Staying in abusive relationship for the sake of the children is a wrong decision.
If two people hate one another, and don’t show respect for each other because they are motivated to stay together only for the sake of children, they harm the children by showing them hatred instead of love, disrespect instead of respect to other humans, aggression instead of understanding.
The parents suppose to be the good guide for children, show to the children what each of the parent has the best inside.

Taking drugs to escape from problems is not responsible because anything we do to ourselves will come back to us.
If we do not fix ours problems now, they usually grow, and we will have to fix them later anyway.

Overeating when we are in depression.
Food could be one bright point in the black depressed world.
We should find the reason of depression, solve it and the rest will do the Zoloft.

In my opinion getting tough when dealing with the crime is wrong decision for the simple reason: aggression produce aggression.
Tougher prisons – tougher criminals, after they will be release.

Smoking to win approval in the group is effect of the picture of tough man, which we are feeding by media.
We suppose to find new picture of cool man with a healthy habit.

Getting tough with the terrorism problem will fix the symptoms, but fixing the reasons is a lot more complicated. When people don’t enjoy their families, friends, and life targets and decide to risk or sacrifice their own life to try to proof something means that they are very easy to manipulate.
If we went back into history we will easy find that the roots of all wars are in the ground of economy. When people are unsecured or hungry is easy to manipulate them by feeding them with the racisms and religion ideology. In my opinion the only way to eliminate acts of terrorism is restore troubled balance in the world. Make people feel secure, share with them.

People who are inclined to emotional explosions have inability to express theirs feelings by crying, talking, discussing their current problems. If we eliminate psychopaths we will see people who don’t accept themselves because they are not accepted or they are afraid. Life supposes to be friendlier to anyone.

Feeling self-pity is kind of emotion, which is negative to our psychical condition, is a smokescreen to objective picture of life around us. By the way is not worst feeling we experienced.

In my opinion none of these examples are not good fundaments to make decisions.